Treat Her Like A Lady

 What are the of the questions today?

     Curiosity is increasing as more and more people are asking the question – “What is a five Star Man?”  I had the pleasure of dining with friends and relatives just this weekend to discuss just that.

What I enjoy most as we elaborate on the books content is the fellowship of friends, family, and acquaintances. There was one individual that was under the impression that the Five Star rating system was to be used to rate both men and women.

What is the Five Star System?

This Five Star system is used by women only to determine the stability of the her prospective spouse.

We’ve come a long way over the last 40 years. Nowhere is this more evident than in our music.  I found a youtube video I’d like to share from years ago that reflects the attitude of that day regarding how women should be treated.

Just for a moment let's reflect on how thing should be as opposed to how they are.

Should women pursue men?

 What’s wrong with pursuing?

I received a comment on my Facebook page today in response to the post of my banner. The banner read “how to find the man every woman is looking for.” This statement was a concern for the person who commented on it. The reason is as she stated that women should not pursue men rather men must be the pursuers to which I fully agree.

 I believe this for various reasons. The first reason is that when a woman allows herself to be pursued it adds to her own attractiveness. Secondly, it is designed that the male pursue the female. Thirdly it’s a motivation killer. It is that way with all living creatures. There’s no reason to believe it would be any different with human beings.

 So, what was originally phrased as “how to find the man every woman is looking for” can also be phrased as “how to recognize the man every woman is looking for.”